I never knew having a second baby would be so hard. In fact it’s one of the hardest things I’ve ever attempted in my life. Being up by night then not having the chance by day to nap like first time around is a struggle. Running around after a toddler who has endless energy is hard.
I always thought I would be able to cope, but I haven’t. This is extremely hard for me to admit, but I’ve needed help. I’m lucky that my mother in law just lives across the road and is always on hand to take baby girl outside for a walk or just to play in the garden so I can have some rest bite. Even if it’s just to watch Grey’s Anatomy!
You see I’m a very independent woman and have always done everything myself, that’s why I’ve found it hard second time around. My husband is always telling me to slow down especially as I’ve had a c section. I did everything much too soon after my first c section and therefore ended up with lots of scar tissue which had to be cut out before they could get baby dottie out.
The tiredness I have to admit it’s making me snappy. I don’t do well on a lack of sleep! Those first couple of weeks I was heading for chocolate constantly. But baby dottie has been having such terrible cramps and tummy pains (worse than just colic and reflux I’m sure) so I’ve decided to go on a lactose free diet for a few weeks to see if there’s a problem with my breast milk. I’m such a huge dairy fan as well. I’m always having bowls of cereal, cheese and yogurts. But luckily by looking around I’ve discovered the lactose free range and of course the free from range.
It’s only the beginning of my lactose free journey but after 2 weeks baby dottie is settling more and not having so many cramps.
I will keep you updated on our progress.
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