In order to learn how to solve problems for ourselves, we often faced smaller obstacles as a child. From learning how to handle toys to handling disagreements when we’re young adults, overcome obstacles is part and parcel of growing up.
With young children, there are a range of different techniques you can use to train them towards handling obstacles and what to do. Here are some top tips from a nursery in East Yorkshire to get your child to embrace challenges in their daily lives.
Focus on the outcomes
Regardless of your child’s journey, show them that it’s all about the end goal when it comes to completing tasks. If your child focuses on the main goal of what they’re trying to achieve, like finishing a tough bike ride for example, then they’ll be able to push aside any mistakes they felt they made. When they reach the end, show them praise for their efforts and make them feel supported and appreciated.
Show them that mistakes happen
Nobody is born perfect no matter how many times you may think the opposite. Children can become stressed about their performance and it can be easy to compare themselves to others. Show them that no matter how many mistakes they make that you’re still proud of them for having a go and showing that they’re willing to try. Any progress, no matter how small, is still progress; making your child believe that will give them a huge self-esteem boost.
Use problem-solving games to practice overcoming obstacles
Give your child a heap of practice by using board games or card games to practice with them how to solve a real-time problem. This also gives them a chance to think critically and to learn how to make a decision quickly. Another way is by encouraging them to think about solving issues when you’re on the go. For instance, if your child spills a drink, ask them what they think they need to do to resolve the problem. Give them a hand the first time so that they know what to do next time.
Give praise wherever you can
Your child learns from you and how you choose to support them. Give them regular praise for their work, for trying their best in school, for helping others, and other ways your child does their best in a situation. Each child is different and some are more naturally confident than others. However, regular praise and positive affirmations are known to boost a child’s self-esteem while also learning about how to tackle problems in the future.
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Great post, and i think some of the tips will come in helpful with my daughter